The Sober and Happy Podcast
Have you tried everything, but you still can’t make sobriety stick? Or maybe you are sober, but you feel like there should be something more to your new sober life? There are many paths to getting sober, but whatever path you choose, quitting drinking is only the beginning. Tim has over a decade of sobriety and has gone through the journey from rehab to 12-step programs, to finally discovering his own path to recovery and happiness. He has transformed from the daily battle of trying to stay sober to learning to love himself and his life so much that he no longer needs to drink. In the Sober and Happy Podcast, you will learn how to discover yourself and blaze your own path, methods to help you along your journey to recovery, and motivation to help live a sober and happy life.
The Sober and Happy Podcast
#133: The Messy Middle of Sobriety: Why You’re Doing Better Than You Think
In this episode, we dig into one of the most frustrating parts of early sobriety: when you’re doing everything right but still don’t feel better.
If you’ve ever wondered whether your progress “counts” because you don’t feel different yet, this conversation is for you.
You’ll learn why early recovery often makes emotions feel stronger — not because you’re failing, but because your brain and body are finally waking back up. We talk about why life can still feel messy without alcohol, why you sometimes feel more overwhelmed before you feel better, and how to recognize the quiet signs that you’re actually growing.
This episode is about giving you hope, perspective, and practical ways to see your progress even when it’s not obvious. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of what real growth looks like in sobriety — and why your hard days don’t mean you’re going backward.
Perfect for anyone in early sobriety, rebuilding their life, or trying to stay encouraged during the messy middle.